Healthy Male-Female RelationshipsPosted by: | Posted on: February 3, 2014
Men and women we used the same words, but tenth different things. How the woman uses the language the women use the words to express their deeper feelings. Often, their phrases have high an emotional load. The woman does not express loose words, but internal feelings. In addition, their hidden words usually have hidden meaning, subliminal messages.
To the man sometimes it is called on to him to be as a wizard to know the real intention than the woman it is saying behind a certain phrase. For example, if the woman never says you listen to to me, for the common man it can sound like a complaint; but really what means he is today I am sensible, it was not a good day and I want that you pay attention to me; I need empathy and your understanding, because me it makes very happy that you listen to to me. Where it is the problem? In which the woman really thinks that the men we understand all the subliminal messages behind its words. And she is not thus. The woman says to itself if he lands on water to me, would understand to me. But you I assure, if you are woman, who by much love that the men we have, the majority of times we did not catch what really they try to say! How the language uses the man the man uses the language of more direct form, to transmit information or facts concrete objectives and.
The man usually does not use the language to transmit his feelings. Even, when the man speaks than he feels, for of descriptive form, informing, without emotions often involved (unless they are very strong emotions). For that reason he is that to the man it is very difficult to him to understand what the woman tries to say behind her words. It does not have nor idea than his wife he is thinking. In the example of You never listen to me! , the man understands this like a reclamation or a complaint, where his wife says to him that he never is available for her. He therefore one gets angry, and it thinks that his wife does not value what he does. Then he begins to name the times him where he has listened to yes it. Different linguistic abilities Another difference is that to the woman it enchants to him to express what thinks and feels. In addition, superior has a linguistic ability. To the man, however, it does not like to speak than it feels, and little speech than it thinks. And often the man does not know how to express many things. This difference usually makes hopeles the woman because it wishes to know everything of him, how it was to him, what thinks on the matter, how feels and the man is hopeless, because he does not want don’t mention it to speak but to only rest. Original author and source of the article